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<< Previous   of   Next >>   ADVERTISEMENT   HAVE YOUR SAY Feel strongly about something? Share it with the community by writing a letter to the editor. You’ll need to include your name, address and daytime phone number. (We’ll only publish your name and hometown.) We reserve the right to edit letters, but if you keep yours to 250 words or less, we won’t ask you to shorten it. If your letter is published, please wait 30 days before submitting another. Send it to: E-mail: letters@heraldnet.com Mail: Letters section The Herald P.O. Box 930 Everett, WA 98206 Fax: 425-339-3458 Have a question about letters? Contact Carol MacPherson (cmacpherson@heraldnet.com or 425-339-3472).   Published: Monday, December 10, 2007 Life's quickest decisions tend to linger the longest By Larry Simoneaux Sometimes you come up against a situation that has no way out and no way around it. When you do, you make a decision and then you get to live with it. This happened years ago, but the memory's still fresh. It was a Friday evening and my family had been invited to a friend's house for dinner. We had the kids with us and, at the time, they were all under 10 years old and our two youngest had yet to reach 5. It was rush hour, traffic was heavy, and I was driving in the far right lane of a six-lane avenue. Out of the corner of my left eye, I caught a flash of movement. When I looked I saw a cat running flat-out across the avenue. Pure luck got him across five lanes but he had one more to go. Mine. Having once been a pilot and having driven ships as a career, I'd developed a good appreciation of relative motion between moving bodies. Almost instantly, my brain said, "Bad news." I'll spare the details by simply saying that the contact was solid. This was confirmed when I looked in my rear view mirror. I've been a hunter most of my life and there are times when you know something won't be getting up again. This was one of those times. In less time than it takes to read, here's the decision process that went through my head: "It's late Friday rush hour on a six-lane avenue. Trying to park the car on the side of the road, get out without having the door sheared off, walk back to the cat and wave my hands to stop traffic is likely to cause an accident that could get someone hurt. Too, seeing the remains won't be an image the kids will forget quickly." So, as I saw it, the best choice was to continue to my friend's house, drop my family off, go back, allow traffic to die down, see if the cat had an ID, and call the owners. Total time to think this one through -- a couple of seconds. I felt badly about leaving, but I made that decision and, in all honesty, I'd make it again. About a mile further on, though, I noticed a car in my rear view mirror. The woman behind the wheel was honking her horn, flashing her lights, and making some extremely rude gestures with her hands. I tried ignoring her, but she got right on my bumper and kept it up. To avoid an accident, I turned onto a side street as soon as I could, got out of the car, and prepared for what I knew was coming. We met at her front bumper. The tirade that followed would've made a Marine drill instructor blush. The gist of it was (and this has been cleaned up a lot): "You unfeeling thug. How could you leave that poor animal back there?" She continued in this vein for some time, but when she wound down, I asked two questions. The first one was: "Do you make it a habit to stop strangers after dark in order to yell obscenities in their face?" That got her attention. Then I asked a much more pertinent question. "Ma'am, if you're truly concerned about the cat, what the devil are you doing here shouting at me?" That set her off again. When she'd finished, I offered the following: "My friend's house is about 10 minutes away. Come with me, I'll drop my wife and kids off, then we'll go back and get the cat." I ended up going alone. I've often found that many of the self-proclaimed morally superior among us seem awfully averse to reality and messy clean-ups. When I went back, I didn't find a tag, so there was no one to call. I took the cat to a nearby vet for disposal. The vet said what I'd thought. The cat had died instantly. What brings all of this back is the carcass of a small dog I saw on my way to work the other day. Busy highway. Lots of traffic. And I'd be willing to bet that the driver faced the same situation I'd faced years ago and didn't like the decision he or she had to make. Sometimes it's like that. Sometimes the best decision you can make isn't always an easy one to stomach. For sure, though, those are the ones that stay with you forever. Larry Simoneaux lives in Edmonds. His e-mail address is larrysim@att.net.

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