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Published: Monday, November 23, 2009

When kids can start minding their manners

Along with the joy of holiday gatherings comes a fear of your child doing something egregious at the table: chewing with his mouth open, burping the first half of the alphabet, constructing a volcano with her mashed potatoes.

Etiquette experts say it's never too late to brush up on the basics.

Parents often wonder how long they should expect their child to be able to sit at a table, said Jennifer Ricciardi, director of the Lifestyle Finishing School in Burke, Va. Her advice: Multiply the child's age by three to set the standard. A 3-year-old might only be able to tolerate nine minutes of holiday dining, but an 8-year-old's threshold would be closer to 25 minutes.

“Kids need to practice,” said Janis Brown, founder of the Etiquette School of Greater Washington, D.C. “A lot of kids have food put on their plates and then they are put in front of the TV. Who's watching how they eat?”

Remember that disruptions in routine and schedule can be overwhelming for little ones. Plan ahead to make sure they get the rest and nourishment they need while the family is traveling or playing host.

Top table manners

(for ages 4 to 7)

  • Put your napkin in your lap.

  • Have a clean face and hands when you sit down at the table.

  • Use your napkin to wipe food off your face.

  • Start eating when everyone else does or when you've been told it's OK.

  • Stay seated and sit upright.

  • Keep elbows off the table while eating.

  • Chew with your mouth closed.

  • Say “please,” instead of reaching for things or demanding.

  • Ask to be excused and say “thank you.”

  • Offer to help clear the table.

    Source: Emily Post Institute

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