But recently something shifted. At the age of 3, she has decided that she is officially a girl — a dress-wearing, doll-toting, tea-party-hosting girl. Although we didn't push any of the stereotypical girl gear on her — she has spent the past few years playing with trucks and trains as happily as with dolls — it is official: Her favorite activity is to dress up and play princess. And if you ask her (or often even if you don't), she will tell you her favorite colors are pink and purple.
Coinciding with this shift, she has begun to assert herself at the table. She is becoming a pickier eater. The clams she once loved sit on her plate untouched, she barely bites the kale chips and a sweet potato is definitely not to be passed off as a regular one.
She is an opinionated 3-year-old girl now, and I better get used to it.
In an effort to meet her in the middle, I made a delicious dip for a recent weekend lunch and served it on china with cups of tea. The dip was pink, of course, yet also free of artificial food dyes. My daughter dove into it with crackers, apples and carrot sticks and later told her friends all about her “pink party lunch.”
The beans in this dip provide protein and calcium, the olive oil provides healthful fats and the beet has essential vitamins and minerals. With the right dipping materials, it makes an impressive meal. My daughter has asked to serve it at all of her upcoming tea parties. Works for me.
So to all of the little princesses out there, I wholly embrace your enthusiasm and hope someday you come out of the phase as strong-willed as you went in — and worrying less about how sparkly you are on the outside than how strong you are on the inside. But at age 3, let life be pink.
Pink Bean Dip
6 servings (makes 1½ cups)
The dip can be refrigerated for up to 1 week.
15 ounces cooked or canned, no-salt-added white beans (drained and rinsed, if using canned; 1½ cups)
1 clove garlic, chopped
1/3 cup olive oil
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice, or more to taste
½ small or ¼ large peeled, roasted beet, chopped
Freshly ground black pepper
Combine the beans, garlic, oil, lemon juice and the beet in a food processor; puree until smooth and no bits of beet remain. Season lightly with salt and pepper. Taste, and add lemon juice as needed. Transfer to an airtight container; refrigerate until ready to serve.
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