Paul Schoenfeld

The pursuit of joy brings meaning to our lives

The pursuit of happiness isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Joy is more enduring than simply getting something we want.

More insights on parenting successfully

Be specific when giving praise, ignore minor bad behavior and more tips from child psychologist Paul Schoenfeld.

New Year’s Day is a time for reflection

Focus on what you want to nurture in yourself in 2023. Pick one or two qualities you would like to grow.

Counting our blessings during the holiday season

As we gather to ring in the new year, take a moment to share your gratitude with loved ones.

Coping with loss over the Christmas holidays

When we acknowledge and accept our sad feelings, we often are more able to experience love and joy.

Healthy strategies for minimizing holiday stress

What’s important to you about the holidays? What do you want to celebrate? Stay focused on the big picture.

These tips can help you nurture a positive outlook on life

No one likes to be negative. Yet some adults can’t help but see their cup as half full.

Is your partner grumpy? Here are some antidotes to consider

No. 1: Wait until your grump is in a good mood to talk to them about their grumpiness.

May everyone around your table have peace this Thanksgiving

It’s not uncommon for the holiday season to be a complex mixture of sweet and salty flavors. But ultimately, it’s all about love.

Four ways to help you beat the winter blues

Standard time resumes today (Nov. 6). Get ready for night to fall before you leave the office.

Giving up car keys, and other hard decisions for older adults

The struggle to maintain our elders’ dignity, independence and well-being is the goal of positive aging.

Your children need mentors — here’s how to find them

Coaches, ministers, teachers, neighbors or relatives can assume this very important role in a young person’s life.

Helping children cope with the pain of divorce

What splitting couples can do to make the transition more comfortable for their kids.

Team sports help create winners in the game of adult life

Team sports foster the skills children will need as adults: hard work, discipline, team work, ability to take direction, desire to excel, single-minded focus, the ability to let others shine, and grit when the going gets rough.

Effective discipline: Why rewards work better than punishment

Rewarding positive behavior, whenever it appears, can be a very powerful tool for encouraging cooperation.

Mutual respect fosters cooperation and connection

In a world where aggression is on the rise, we need to cultivate peace and harmony — now more than ever.

Tips on surviving the myth of the perfect parent

If your children grow into mature, responsible, independent adults, you’ll know did the “right thing.”

Tips for starting the school year on the right foot

It’s important to nourish a healthy attitude toward learning rather than simply reward performance.

Don’t let go during the turbulent teenage years

Your truculent teen may give you endless grief now. But someday, when they’re adults, they’ll thank you.

“Disrupt Yourself,” by Katie Malachuk.

Author shows us how to open our inner landscapes

“Disrupt Yourself,” by Katie Malachuk, presents ways to notice what’s causing us anxiety instead of reaching for balms like alcohol or our cell phones.

“Disrupt Yourself,” by Katie Malachuk.