NEW YORK — When Diamond Emory and her daughter Makaiah arrived at Wal-Mart to buy her fifth-grade school supplies, they encountered much to entice a young shopper.
The aisles of the store near their home in Groveport, Ohio, displayed glittery pencils, fancy folders and “Hannah Montana” and “High School Musical” emblazoned everything.
But instead of indulging her 10-year-old daughter, Emory carried a calculator and together they figured out what they could purchase and still stay within their budget.
“We’re watching how we’re spending our money and paying debt down aggressively,” said Emory, “every penny counts.”
With a household income of about $90,000 per year, Diamond and her husband, Eric, adopted a strict budget for the family early this year. As part of the plan, the Emorys have included their three children in the planning and decision making that such tight controls involve. They see outings such as shopping for school supplies as a way to help Makaiah and their 5-year-old twins, Eric and Elyse, learn about handling money.
It’s a significant step, because most children are not likely to get any lessons about handling money in the classroom. Just five states require instruction on the principles of money management for elementary school students, according to the JumpStart Coalition for Personal Financial Literacy, an advocacy group. Only 20 states require or are considering mandated instruction on the topic for middle school or high school students.
Financial planner Susan Bruno sees back-to-school shopping as a perfect way to teach children a lesson before the first bell rings.
Bruno, a principal at Beacon Wealth Consulting in Rowayton, Conn., said parents can even try to make a game out of the exercise. “It’s kind of fun with younger kids to say ‘What do you think it’s going to cost?’ and then talk through it,” Bruno said.
There are plenty of opportunities to work with kids in stores. Even in a tough economy, the National Retail Federation estimates back-to-school spending for kindergarten through 12th grade will reach $20.1 billion this year. But it’s worth noting that like the Emory family, about 73 percent of back-to-school shoppers are heading to discount stores to stretch their dollars, the federation said. What’s more, thrift stores such as Goodwill and Salvation Army are reporting stronger sales.
If you’re going to start a dialogue with your kids, some tips to keep in mind:
1. Discuss the concept of money with even your youngest children. Help them understand that you go to work to provide food, clothing and their toys.
2. Help kids understand the concepts of saving, investing and donating — not just spending.
3. In an age of ATMs and online purchases, remember that you’ll need to explain to young children how those transactions relate to cash. Explain how credit cards work.
4. Use shopping for school supplies, and even regular trips to the grocery store, as opportunities to teach kids about budgeting and understanding wants vs. needs.
5. Open a bank account for your children and teach them to save for something they want.
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