NEW YORK – Video games and the Internet have been subject to suspicion since the computer became a household fixture. One complaint: People get sucked into spending enormous amounts of time on the computer, to the detriment of other parts of their life.
But are they addicted?
The answer depends on what you mean by “addicted.”
“When I started out back 1995, I thought that this could potentially be a major problem,” said professor Mark Griffiths, who studies behavioral addictions at Nottingham Trent University in Nottingham, England. “In no way has the hype lived up to what has actually been found in research.”
Donna Meyer doesn’t think she’s addicted, even if she spends up to 12 hours a day in Second Life, a gamelike world on the Internet. The 49-year-old grandmother in New York shares a virtual home with a partner who lives in New Mexico.
“My daughter gets annoyed,” Meyer said. “She’s like, ‘My God, Ma, you used to go out, now you’re always on the computer.’”
Psychologist Kimberly Young estimates that 5 percent to 10 percent of Internet users have compulsive bouts. Young has provided counseling over the phone and online from her Center for Online Addiction in Bradford, Pa., since 1997.
Compulsive users may not be addicted in a stringent sense, but to Young that’s an academic distinction. They have a problem and may need outside help, which the mental health profession is in poor position to provide.
“So many people come to me after going to three or four other psychologists who didn’t get it, and just told them to turn off the computer,” Young said. “That’s like telling an alcoholic to stop drinking.”
Griffiths believes there’s a large difference between people who use the Internet excessively and those who have problems with it, and even those who have problems may not be addicted. To count as a real addiction in Griffith’s view, it has to be destructive, cause withdrawal symptoms and prompt ever greater use to maintain the kick.
Tellingly, he said, people who establish a romantic relationship online and spend hours on it usually stop using the Internet when they meet in the real world and continue the relationship there.
Jason Ellis, 32, has felt the negative side of computer games, which have cost him one job and at least one girlfriend.
“In 1998, when StarCraft came out, I was playing 10 hours a day and trying to work 8 hours a day,” said Ellis, who lives in New York. Now, he has pulled back a bit on the games in favor of making music.
“I don’t blame them for things in my life that haven’t gone the way they’re supposed to,” Ellis said. “It’s my most consuming pastime, and it has been for such a long time that I’m comfortable with it.”
Experts believe that computer addiction does happen, if rarely. Robert LaRose, a professor of telecommunications at Michigan State University, has studied the phenomenon among students, and estimates that it happens to a fraction of a percent of users – about the same rate as gambling addiction.
“For the people who can’t catch themselves for some reason, there’s the possibility of a downward spiral,” he said.
In South Korea, a hard-core video-gaming culture was blamed last year for at least four deaths. Three men died after or during gaming bouts, one as long as 20 days. A 4-month-old baby suffocated while its parents were out playing games.
In cases like that, game addiction is probably not the only factor, said Cynthia Moreno Tuohy, executive director of the Association for Addiction Professionals. She said mental illness could play into it, for instance.
Looking at underlying causes is also useful in treating milder forms of obsessive computer use, in Moreno Tuohy’s opinion.
“If you’re not feeling connected at home, at work, with your parents, with your loved ones, or with your family, then you’re going to look for it somewhere else,” she said. “The human being is made to need other people.”
If parents find their kids are spending too much time online or with video games, they should ask themselves if they’re providing an alternative, she added.
“Different research has pointed out that most kids would rather spend time with a positive, nonjudgmental adult than with a machine, a toy or a TV, or even their peers,” Moreno Tuohy said.
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