Minister accused of stealing gifts at wedding ceremony

PORTLAND, Ore. — Kitty and Shawn Sonnenschein didn’t think they had cheap friends.

The couple were married last month at their Portland house. Because the newlyweds were remodeling the kitchen, they requested gift cards from Home Depot instead of gifts.

But when they looked in the basket they had set out by the guest book, they found only three Home Depot cards. Not wanting to offend their guests, the couple didn’t say a word.

“It’s been extremely uncomfortable,” Kitty, 28, told The Oregonian newspaper. “You don’t want to call somebody and ask them what they got you.”

But over the next week, many of their friends and family began to ask what they were going to do with their gift cards. That’s when they became suspicious that someone might have stolen them.

The newlyweds suspected the Rev. Shey-Rima Silveira.

The couple had a friend who offered to officiate, but they weren’t sure his license was up to date. Kitty turned to the popular Web site Craigslist to find a minister.

Silveira advertised “last-minute weddings” as her specialty.

“She was wonderful over the phone,” Kitty said.

Their friend did officiate, but Silveira performed a brief ceremony afterward and signed the certificate to make it official.

The couple suspected Silveira because they believed her to be the only person in the house during the outdoor ceremony, and she seemed out of sorts and anxious to leave.

“We did everything we could to avoid suspicion of her,” said Shawn Sonnenschein, 41. “But the evidence was pretty clear.”

With the help of some friends, the couple did a little detective work. Several guests had purchased the gift cards with credit cards. The couple called Home Depot. Store officials, using the credit card numbers, traced the gift cards and discovered that at least four had been redeemed.

Detective Willie Halliburton of the Portland Police Bureau pulled the store’s surveillance tapes, and spotted Silveira buying some tools and detergent.

Silveira denied the theft when confronted by officers, saying the wedding party gave her the cards. But police arrested her Tuesday on an accusation of second-degree theft.

“If you can’t trust someone to officiate over your wedding, who can you trust in this world?” Halliburton said.

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