Sympathy for kids reduces sentence

By Jim Haley

Herald Writer

If the defendant doesn’t get the message, it isn’t the judge’s fault.

Superior Court Judge Ronald Castleberry Tuesday made it clear that he didn’t like the fact that Sean Patrick O’Brien had left a loaded gun where his 5-year-old could find it and shoot herself in the leg.

What’s more, he didn’t like the fact that O’Brien, 45, of Everett, had the weapon in the first place, because of a 1992 felony conviction of attempting to elude a police vehicle.

It’s against the law for most felons to possess firearms.

But Castleberry sentenced O’Brien, a single parent, to just three months of home confinement and 240 hours of community service. That was the penalty recommended by deputy prosecutor Lisa Paul and defense attorney Natalie Tarantino.

"Mr. O’Brien, I have no sympathy for you whatsoever," Castleberry told him. "I cannot in any shape or form excuse you for what you did."

O’Brien pleaded guilty to second-degree unlawful possession of a firearm, a felony, and a gross misdemeanor of reckless endangerment. Under the law, the sentencing range was between three and eight months in jail, Paul said.

Although Castleberry didn’t feel sorry for O’Brien, he did for the four daughters O’Brien fought to regain after they were placed in foster homes. Tarantino noted that O’Brien sought counseling for his daughters after the shooting, which occurred in November 2000.

Paul said even the state’s Child Protective Services agreed that it wouldn’t be good for the daughters if their dad spent an extended period of time in jail. She argued that the irony is sending their dad to jail would be inflicting more pain on his daughters, perhaps forcing them to return to foster homes. The argument for leniency was solely because of them, she said.

O’Brien told the judge he didn’t know he wasn’t supposed to have the .22-caliber pistol, and bought it just days before the shooting.

He said he had been working on the pistol, which he thought was broken. He wrapped it in a pillowcase and put it on his headboard when he went to the bathroom.

A few minutes later, he heard the shot.

"I admit it was the stupidest thing I ever did," he told the judge.

Castleberry also was not pleased that O’Brien still owes a large sum for child support and had not made preparations for the children in case the judge threw him in jail on Tuesday.

"You tell me you come into court today, and you tell me you have no plan" for taking care of the kids? Castleberry asked. "I do have a lot of sympathy for your girls."

You can call Herald Writer Jim Haley at 425-339-3447

or send e-mail to haley@heraldnet.com.

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Local News

Logo for news use featuring Snohomish County, Washington. 220118
Health officials: Three confirmed measles cases in SnoCo over holidays

The visitors, all in the same family from South Carolina, went to multiple locations in Everett, Marysville and Mukilteo from Dec. 27-30.

Dog abandoned in Everett dumpster has new home and new name

Binny, now named Maisey, has a social media account where people can follow along with her adventures.

People try to navigate their cars along a flooded road near US 2 on Wednesday, Dec. 10, 2025, in Sultan, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Temporary flood assistance center to open in Sultan

Residents affected by December’s historic flooding can access multiple agencies and resources.

Logo for news use featuring the Tulalip Indian Reservation in Snohomish County, Washington. 220118
Teens accused of brutal attack on Tulalip man Monday

The man’s family says they are in disbelief after two teenagers allegedly assaulted the 63-year-old while he was starting work.

A sign notifying people of the new buffer zone around 41st Street in Everett on Wednesday, Jan. 7. (Will Geschke / The Herald)
Everett adds fifth ‘no sit, no lie’ buffer zone at 41st Street

The city implemented the zone in mid-December, soon after the city council extended a law allowing it to create the zones.

A view of the Eastview development looking south along 79th Avenue where mud and water runoff flowed due to rain on Oct. 16, 2025 in Snohomish, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Eastview Village critics seek appeal to overturn county’s decision

Petitioners, including two former county employees, are concerned the 144-acre project will cause unexamined consequences for unincorporated Snohomish County.

Snohomish County commuters: Get ready for more I-5 construction

Lanes will be reduced along northbound I-5 in Seattle throughout most of 2026 as WSDOT continues work on needed repairs to an aging bridge.

Logo for news use featuring the municipality of Snohomish in Snohomish County, Washington. 220118
Snohomish man held on bail for email threat against Gov. Ferguson, AG Brown

A district court pro tem judge, Kim McClay, set bail at $200,000 Monday after finding “substantial danger” that the suspect would act violently if released.

Kathy Johnson walks through vegetation growing along a CERCLA road in the Mt. Baker-Snoqualmie National Forest on Thursday, July 10, 2025 in Granite Falls, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Activism groups to host forest defense meeting in Bothell

The League of Women Voters of Snohomish County and the Pacific Northwest Forest Climate Alliance will discuss efforts to protect public lands in Washington.

Debris shows the highest level the Snohomish River has reached on a flood level marker located along the base of the Todo Mexico building on First Street on Friday, Dec. 12, 2025 in Snohomish, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
SnoCo offers programs to assist in flood mitigation and recovery

Property owners in Snohomish County living in places affected by… Continue reading

Emily Trepanier on Friday, Jan. 16, 2026 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
‘I’m going to die’: Two childhood friends recount hours-long ordeal on Mt. Baker

A fallen tree trapped the pair partway down the mountain for several hours in the snow.

With the warm atmosphere, freshly made food and a big sign, customers should find their way to Kindred Kitchen, part of HopeWorks Station on Broadway in Everett. (Dan Bates / The Herald)
Housing Hope to close cafe, furniture store

Kindred Cafe will close on Jan. 30, and Renew Home and Decor will close on March 31, according to the nonprofit.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.