Parents, kids need to know how to behave

On Dec. 10 my daughter and I wanted to celebrate Christmas by attending the Nutcracker ballet, which was being performed by the Everett Symphony and the Bellevue Ballet. It was an absolutely lovely ballet! The music was beautiful and the dancers were so elegant and graceful … this should’ve been a great opportunity to introduce my daughter to live theater.

Instead, I am appalled at the lack of theater etiquette we experienced. Not only were there children chattering, but the mothers as well. Not even attempting to whisper. There were snack food wrappers noisily unwrapping, plastic cups falling under seats and some patrons actually “whooping” out yells. I find it sad that so many theater-goers didn’t find this a reason to get dressed up and make it a truly special occasion.

Do people realize how rude it is not only to the performers, but to the other paying patrons as well, to hear the chatter during a performance? I see nothing wrong with taking children to see the Nutcracker. I’d like to think, however, that prior to taking your child you would spend time explaining the etiquette of being at a live performance. Parents should’ve read the story to the children first, allowing them to use their imagination while watching the story unfold in front of them.

When I was young I frequently attended the symphony. I was taught at a young age that you sit quietly and enjoy the music. To this, I must remember to thank my mother. Parents, please teach your children …

Christina L. Bennett

Marysville

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