The good that will come out of the violent attacks of Tuesday, Sept. 11, will be a stronger, more united America, showing acts of personal heroism and compassion that transcend the evil and hate that were visited upon us. But while we fill with pride for belonging to this great nation, it is more important that we also step back and pause – for more than just a token few days – and learn the poignant lessons that can only be learned in the individual heart: That human life is precious and valuable far beyond what can ever be expressed. That our lives, at any given moment, are vulnerable and fragile.
Let us go on from this unspeakable tragedy and cherish more that which we have taken for granted. Complain less and be kinder and more considerate of one another, putting our trivial irritations and concerns in proper perspective.
And for a very intentional period of time – more than just a token few days – may we truly “mourn with those who mourn,” and not go on with life as usual. Conscientiously remember in the weeks and months ahead – when business, commerce, sports and entertainment resume their occupation of our time – that thousands of men, women and children, our sisters and brothers, will be crying still, engulfed in personal grief and rage.
As a nation of great industry and affluence, one of our deepest deficiencies is in our lack of ability to mourn our real losses, and to give proper respect to others whose lives have been shattered. The gods of our secular culture demand that we flow with the rapid pace of “getting on with life,” denying the very necessary, human need to grieve and mourn. To do so requires us to slow down and cease many of our normal pursuits.
Individually, we must consciously choose to go against this cultural flow so the crucial lessons we need to learn can sink in, and affect us, and change us from the inside out. Then, and only then, can real healing take place.
Lake Stevens
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