Write a letter to a child

Published 9:00 pm Wednesday, March 20, 2002

When it comes to communicating with their kids, most parents fall back on a time honored repertoire that’s likely far too well rehearsed. For review: do your homework, eat your veggies, brush your teeth, stand up straight, get off the phone, turn that music down, stop teasing your (fill in the blank) — and, of course, the perennial favorite — just go to bed. These seem to be the messages woven into the rhythm of everyday life. What often goes unsaid is: I think you’re terrific, I’m glad you’re part of my life and you’re a pretty cool kid.

Today is a day that’s been set aside by the folks at Camp Fire USA to celebrate Absolutely Incredible Kid Day and to encourage adults to put into writing the special qualities they love about this up and coming generation. It doesn’t have to be anything elaborate or worthy of a Pulitzer Prize. In fact, it can be as simple as a tiny heart and the three small words, I love you, written in crayon on a paper napkin tucked into a lunch box.

For greater inspiration, check out Camp Fire’s web site at http://www.campfireusa.org for more ideas and even downloadable stationery to get you started.

One message that deserves to come through loud and clear is the message of unconditional love and support, a simple sentiment that can go a long way toward helping a kid feel incredible.