Michelle Obama reaches out to military families

  • By Tom Philpott Syndicated Columnist
  • Saturday, April 16, 2011 12:01am
  • Business

There’s a sacrifice gap in America today that many don’t see but that some military families see and feel every day.

Blame the professionalism of a volunteer force that is able, into a 10th straight year, to wage war against enemies far from the homeland.

The uncomfortable reality is that only 1 percent of U.S. adults serve in our military, and an even smaller number does most of the fighting. They’re trained for it, they’re good at it and they do it willingly.

But sustained warfare using only volunteers, we now know, results in multiple deployments and a pace of operations unimagined when conscripts filled the ranks. That has led to long and frequent separations from home, unprecedented levels of stress, higher rates of divorce and suicide, and higher levels of anxiety among military children.

Don’t feel, however, that there’s nothing you can do about it.

Whether you’re a neighbor, business owner, corporate executive, community leader or ordinary citizen, you can help close the sacrifice gap by showing military families and veterans that you appreciate their service.

That’s the purpose behind of a new nationwide initiative, “Joining Forces,” launched this week by Michelle Obama and Jill Biden, the vice president’s wife.

“It’s our hope,” said Obama during a White House kickoff ceremony Tuesday “that what we’re launching today becomes part of the fabric of the country.”

“This campaign,” she said, “is about all of us joining together, as Americans, to give back to the extraordinary military families who serve and sacrifice so much, every day, so that we can live in freedom and security.”

In an interview later that day with both women, Michelle Obama explained that, until four years ago, she had no understanding of the strain felt by military families. Then she began hearing their stories first hand while campaigning for her husband in his run for the presidency.

Unlike the Bidens, whose son Beau serves in the National Guard and deployed to Iraq in 2008, Michelle Obama said, “we’re not a military family.” Her father served in the Army before she was born. Besides photos of him in uniform, the military had no role in her life on the south side of Chicago

“I’m sure I have cousins who have served. But is there anyone in my life today who is being deployed? Do I know anyone who’s been deployed? And the answer is no,” she said. That’s also true of most Americans.

Inspired by “the amazing military spouses and children who we’ve met all across the country, Michelle Obama said she became committed to raising awareness of what families and veterans contribute, so public support stays strong or even deepens. As one military mom recently wrote to her, she said, “Please don’t let Americans forget or ignore what we live with.”

“Jill and I have spent the last two years listening, learning, developing the relationships, building credibility within the military community so people actually believe we mean what we say,” Michelle Obama said.

In January the administration announced that for the first time ever the well being of military families would become a priority throughout the federal government, not just at departments of Defense and Veterans Affairs.

For example, the department of Health and Human Services has partnered with Defense to help lower suicides across military and veteran populations; the department of Housing and Urban Development is working with VA and Labor to end veterans homelessness by 2015; Defense, Labor, Commerce and the Small Business Administration are encouraging corporate America to expand career opportunities for military spouses. A total of 50 such commitments by federal departments are being implemented.

“Joining Forces,” said Obama, is to get “the rest of the country” involved in lifting whatever burdens they can off of military families.

To comment, send e-mail to milupdate@aol.com or write to Military Update, P.O. Box 231111, Centreville, VA, 20120-1111.

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