Chaotic ‘Mommy’ makes an exciting, youthful mess

  • By Robert Horton Herald Movie Critic
  • Wednesday, February 4, 2015 6:04pm
  • LifeGo-See-Do

Some movies want to wear you down — an approach that seems logical for, say, a World War II tank picture like “Fury.” It’s not so obvious why Xavier Dolan’s award-winning “Mommy” seeks the same effect.

This 140-minute domestic drama is a tornado of emotional (and sometimes physical) fury, with occasional joys sprinkled throughout. But man, is it a chore to watch. Dolan, a 25-year-old French-Canadian filmmaker, burns through ideas and situations with the urgency of youth, a blazing rush that creates a sometimes exciting mess.

Much of the film’s fire comes from a teenager, Steve (Antoine-Olivier Pilon), who suffers from extreme ADHD and acts out in violent ways. He’s home with his single mother, Diane (Anne Dorval), who can’t handle him — no one could.

In Dorval’s superb performance, we get a full portrait of this woman: a middle-aged former wild child who is nobody’s idea of Mother of the Year, yet who watches over her son with ferocious, wolf-like attention.

Their volatile relationship plays out in an incongruously clean, tidy Canadian suburb. That’s where they meet Kyla (sad-eyed Suzanne Clement), whose life has slowed because of a vocal stutter, and whose suburban-wife boredom is lifted for a spell in her contact with these astonishing neighbors. Scenes tumble across the screen in a helter-skelter way, as though Steve’s mercurial moods were dictating the progress of the movie we’re watching.

The precocious Dolan (who’s already directed five features, including “Laurence Always”) has shot the film in a square aspect ratio, which is really going to cause problems for home viewers who must have their widescreen TVs filled from side to side. The overbearing technique (which opens up at a couple of key moments) increases the sense of claustrophobia, I guess, even though your eye gets used to it after a few minutes.

One of those moments, late in the film, provides “Mommy” with one of its finest sequences, a genuinely heart-rending fantasy of what the future could be if only Steve were like other people — the kind of daydream a long-suffering mother might allow herself in the midst of an ongoing household nightmare. At times like that, you can see the talent that lies beneath Xavier Dolan’s aggressive method, and the promise of something great in his future.

“Mommy” (2 1/2 stars)

A teenager with severe ADHD tests his mother’s ability to cope — a situation that unleashes a tornado of emotional fury in this exhausting film by Canadian filmmaker Xavier Dolan. The film wears you out, but it’s a sometimes exciting mess. In French, with English subtitles.

Rating: R, for language, subject matter

Showing: Guild 45th theater

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Life

The Sundem family outside of their Grocery Outlet Bargain Market store on Tuesday, Feb. 10, 2026 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Grocery Outlet: Aisles of surprise, sauce and sweet deals

Regulars swap tips, hoard favorites and brace for heartbreak when the stash runs dry.

Kids on a carnival ride at the Island County Fair in July 2015. (David Welton)
The lens of Whidbey: From saving hearts to saving moments

Retired cardiologist David Welton documents Whidbey Island life in photos.

Daphne odora ‘Marianni’ (Sunnyside Nursery)
The Golfing Gardener: Delightful Daphne

Over eons, the kingdom of plants has stretched across the globe and… Continue reading

2026 Air Touring photo provided by Lucid Motors.
2026 Lucid Air Touring delivers all-electric on steroids

Luxury and performance intertwine to create magic

‘Easy to Please’: The hot pink color of this beauty made it instantly popular locally, and those who grow it rave about how clean and floriferous it is for the garden. Moderate clove fragrance helps take this variety to the next level as well. (Sunnyside Nursery)
The Golfing Gardener: For the love of roses

One of the most frequent questions asked over my many moons of… Continue reading

Roger Sweet, left, creator of He-Man, signs Andy Torfin’s Funko He-Man box during a meet and greet at BobaKhan Toys & Collectibles on Saturday, April 13, 2019 in Everett, Wash. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Wife of He-Man co-creator starts GoFundMe for his care

Roger Sweet, an early Masters of the Universe designer, now lives in memory care that costs $10,200 a month.

Camellia (Sunnyside Nursery)
The Golfing Gardener: Valentine’s Day goodies for everyone

It is February and one of my favorite holidays is upon us…… Continue reading

Brandon Tepley does a signature Butch pose while holding a vintage Butch head outside of his job at Mukilteo Elementary where he is dean of students on Thursday, Jan. 22, 2026 in Mukilteo, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
The secret life of Butch T. Cougar, WSU mascot

Mukilteo school dean Brandon Tepley and other mascots talk about life inside — and after — the WSU suit.

2026 Forester Wilderness photo provided by Subaru Media
Subaru Forester adds new Wilderness trim For 2026, increasing versatility

Safety, flexibility, creature comforts all at the ready

Cherry Sweetheart. (Dave Wilson Nursery)
The Golfing Gardener: Cheerful Cherries

As we continue to work through the home orchard, sweet and delicious… Continue reading

Photo Credit: Village Theatre Instagram Page
Your front-row guide to the best theatres around

From powerful productions to local talent, these stages deliver unforgettable moments.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.