3 men, 3 religions: Community discussion planned on faiths’ shared values

MARYSVILLE — They are finding that they have more similarities than differences.

Three men of diverse faiths — a Christian, a Muslim and a Buddhist — have come together to put on a series of community discussions in Marysville about common problems the world is facing.

Michael Jones, of Marysville, represents the Buddhist faith. The Rev. Terry Kyllo, of Anacortes, comes from the Christian and Jewish traditions. He is the pastor at Marysville’s St. Philips Episcopal Church, where the series is to take place. Jafar Siddigui, of Lynnwood, is a Muslim.

“It shouldn’t be a surprise that we have similar beliefs,” Siddigui said. “After all, we are all children of the same God.”

Over coffee last winter, the three men decided they wanted to learn from their similarities and their differences. They discussed their respective religious doctrines and each walked away with a wider perspective.

“The dialogue we had was pretty incredible,” Jones said. “There’s a common thread that weaves through all of this.”

They came up with three topics that they believe are the most pertinent issues facing humanity. They wanted to provide a place for people of various faiths to come together to discuss these problems.

“We’re at the point as a species that we need to start thinking and acting differently,” Jones said. “We start to do that through dialogue.”

The three men already have hosted two lectures. Last spring, the topic was economic justice.

They plan to have a lecture on conflict this winter. Though they haven’t set a date for that talk, Kyllo said, he plans to discuss the importance of balancing the self-interests of different communities of people.

Siddigui, a native of Pakistan, said he hopes to provide an understanding that the conflicts in the Middle East aren’t about religion.

“The bottom line is power, greed, corruption, wealth, whatever,” he said. “It’s a mistake to give them religious elevation.”

The groups that are taking up arms in the name of Islam, he said, are using religion as a shield and a scapegoat.

Meanwhile, Buddhists, Jones said, aim to end all wars. That starts with individuals working to change the conditions that start conflicts, he said. Small adjustments in people’s lives can lead to change on a global scale.

The economy, Kyllo said, should provide for people’s basic needs, including meaningful work and community. If it falls short, people need to make changes, he said.

From his perspective, Jones said, everything boils down to the individual. When one person changes, it permeates society, he said.

Siddigui believes justice is the core value of humanity. Economic and social justice are tied, and people cannot move forward unless they’re secure.

The men found many commonalities in their beliefs about economic justice. They also discovered, at the lecture they hosted this fall, that they have concurring points of view on the environment.

Caring for the planet, Kyllo said, is a central component of what it means to be a Christian. The sacred bread and wine are grown from the Earth. He sees taking them at the altar as a symbol that the entire planet is holy.

The Koran, Siddigui said, also commands people to care for their environment. On judgment day, how well people kept the planet will be a factor, he said. In the Middle East, he said, cutting down another person’s trees is an irrevocable sin.

“That’s how seriously Mother Earth is taken in Islam,” Siddigui said.

Buddhists also have high regard for the planet. They believe humans are connected to their natural surroundings, Jones said. He believes that everything one does affects the environment.

In the end, the men said, they found that sharing their views has allowed them a softened understanding of those with different beliefs.

“Every religion holds love and compassion as its core values,” Siddigui said. “I was struck by the beauty of the expression of the same thoughts.”

Amy Nile: 425-339-3192; anile@heraldnet.com. Twitter: @AmyNileReports.

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Local News

Everett Historic Theater owner Curtis Shriner inside the theater on Tuesday, May 13, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Historic Everett Theatre sale on horizon, future uncertain

With expected new ownership, events for July and August will be canceled. The schedule for the fall and beyond is unclear.

Contributed photo from Snohomish County Public Works
Snohomish County Public Works contractor crews have begun their summer 2016 paving work on 13 miles of roadway, primarily in the Monroe and Stanwood areas. This photo is an example of paving work from a previous summer. A new layer of asphalt is put down over the old.
Snohomish County plans to resurface about 76 miles of roads this summer

EVERETT – As part of its annual road maintenance and preservation program,… Continue reading

City of Everett Engineer Tom Hood, left, and City of Everett Engineer and Project Manager Dan Enrico, right, talks about the current Edgewater Bridge demolition on Friday, May 9, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
How do you get rid of a bridge? Everett engineers can explain.

Workers began dismantling the old Edgewater Bridge on May 2. The process could take one to two months, city engineers said.

Smoke from the Bolt Creek fire silhouettes a mountain ridge and trees just outside of Index on Sept. 12, 2022. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
County will host two wildfire-preparedness meetings in May

Meetings will allow community members to learn wildfire mitigation strategies and connect with a variety of local and state agencies.

Helion's 6th fusion prototype, Trenta, on display on Tuesday, July 9, 2024 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Helion celebrates smoother path to fusion energy site approval

Helion CEO applauds legislation signed by Gov. Bob Ferguson expected to streamline site selection process.

Vehicles travel along Mukilteo Speedway on Sunday, April 21, 2024, in Mukilteo, Washington. (Ryan Berry / The Herald)
Mukilteo cameras go live to curb speeding on Speedway

Starting Friday, an automated traffic camera system will cover four blocks of Mukilteo Speedway. A 30-day warning period is in place.

Carli Brockman lets her daughter Carli, 2, help push her ballot into the ballot drop box on the Snohomish County Campus on Tuesday, Nov. 5, 2024 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Here’s who filed for the primary election in Snohomish County

Positions with three or more candidates will go to voters Aug. 5 to determine final contenders for the Nov. 4 general election.

A person walks up 20th Street Southeast to look at the damage that closed the road on Wednesday, Nov. 20, 2024 in Lake Stevens, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
WA delegation urges Trump to reconsider request for bomb cyclone aid

The Washington state congressional delegation urged President Donald Trump on… Continue reading

One injured, several pets died in Marysville house fire Thursday evening

One woman was transported to the hospital with burns and smoke inhalation. The cause remains under investigation.

Sound Transit approves contract to build Bothell bus facility

The 365,000-square-foot facility will be the heart of the agency’s new Stride bus rapid transit system, set to open in 2028.

One dead in Everett crash involving motorcycle and two vehicles

Police shut down the 10300 block of Evergreen Way in both directions during the multi-vehicle collision investigation.

Katie Wallace, left, checks people into the first flight from Paine Field to Honolulu on Friday, Nov. 17, 2023 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Executive order makes way for Paine Field expansion planning

Expansion would be a long-range project estimated to cost around $300 million.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.