SEATTLE — Dialogue and respect are the tools for transforming enemies, the Dalai Lama said Friday, while sidestepping a specific question about the turmoil in his native Tibet.
“The only way to transform our enemy to become our friend is dialogue, respect,” the exiled Tibetan spiritual leader said in response to a question. “That’s a way of compassion.”
Ann Curry of NBC News, a last-minute addition to a panel discussion on compassion and the media, then asked specifically how he can forgive his enemies and remain hopeful about the situation in Tibet.
He sidestepped that one, talking in general terms about creating better communities and forgiving enemies, and expressing hope that the world will see more compassion with more female leaders.
“Generally, females are more sensitive, there’s a greater potential to develop compassion,” he said.
There was no discussion of the U.S. presidential race.
Recent protests in Tibet against five decades of Chinese rule have been the largest and most sustained in almost two decades and have fueled protests that have disrupted the global torch relay for the Beijing Games.
China has accused the Dalai Lama of being involved in the uprising. He has said that he wants greater autonomy for the remote mountain region but is not seeking independence.
During a stopover in Japan en route to the United States for the five-day Seeds of Compassion conference, he said he has always supported China’s hosting of the Olympic Games this summer, but added Beijing cannot suppress protests in Tibet with violence or tell those calling for more freedom in his homeland “to shut up.”
Friday’s final panel discussion also included singer Dave Matthews, who thanked the Dalai Lama for coming to Seattle in light of the situation in Tibet.
“You must be in a lot of pain for your people,” Matthews said.
Organizers say the Seeds of Compassion gathering is essentially nonpolitical, and generally there were no mentions of Tibet, but conference co-founder Dan Kranzler alluded to it on Friday morning, telling the Dalai Lama, “The world knows the truth.”
The first event of the Seattle conference was a dialogue between scientists and the Dalai Lama about early childhood development and compassion. Friday’s events went smoothly with almost no demonstrators on either side of the Tibet issue.
The mood was lighthearted, with the Dalai Lama often joking during the first two events about his personal life, and reflecting on his own parents.
“I’m happy to be spending time sitting with experienced scientists of compassion,” he said. “Compassion is the motivation, but the real factor is action to change.”
Panelists talked about encouraging parents or caretakers to spend more time with children and discussed how young children’s brains are shaped by their experiences and early relationships.
Conference organizers have said they expected to draw more than 150,000 people to dozens of workshops and events. More than 12,000 people showed up for Friday’s first two panel discussions.
Friday’s last scheduled event was a benefit concert headlined by Matthews and a surprise appearance by Death Cab for Cutie.
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