Reagan’s son sees a deficit of civility

For a moment, I forgot a chapter of U.S. history. Given a chance to hear an insider’s take on the presidency, I asked Ron Reagan to tell the best and worst things about having a father in the White House.

He’d been talking for half an hour. He freely shared memories, along with views of what he expects to be “a very exciting campaign” in 2008.

Then came my best-worst question. His silence lasted long enough that I knew I’d touched a nerve, but not so long that I remembered why.

“The worst thing is watching your father get shot on national television,” he finally said.

“Of course,” I stammered. I hadn’t thought of March 30, 1981, the day President Reagan and three others were shot and wounded by John Hinckley Jr.

Ron Reagan was in Nebraska that day, touring as a dancer with the Joffrey Ballet. He learned the news from a Secret Service agent while having lunch with his wife, Doria. The Secret Service chartered a Learjet to fly them to Washington, D.C.

The president had famously wisecracked, “Honey, I forgot to duck.” His son said he nearly died. “A fragment of the bullet was within an inch of his heart,” he said.

Ron and Doria Reagan live in Seattle. They moved to the Northwest more than a dozen years ago, after the 1994 Northridge earthquake struck their hometown of Los Angeles.

Reagan, 48, is a political commentator and talk show host for KIRO radio. His show airs from noon to 1 p.m. weekdays on 710 AM.

For the eve of Presidents Day, he talked last week about his experiences in the White House and his unique perspective on the highest office in the land.

First, an answer to the other half of my question: “The best thing was to be privy to things most people don’t get to see. You are inside the room when something significant happens,” he said.

Nudged for specifics, Reagan said he was in a house in Geneva, Switzerland, when his father first met Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev. “A White House aide and I were listening at the door. We were eavesdropping,” he said.

Politically, he and his father didn’t see eye to eye. Reagan is now an unabashed critic of the Bush administration.

“I never campaigned for my father,” said Reagan, who was 22 when his father was elected in 1980. Unlike his then-outspoken sister, Patti Davis, who wrote unflattering accounts of her upbringing and publicly disagreed with her father, Ron Reagan kept any differences to himself.

Back then, he said, “people would only be interested in my political opinions in a way that could hurt my father.”

He did host “Saturday Night Live.” The episode is more memorable for his send-up of Tom Cruise dancing in his skivvies than for any comic jabs at President Reagan.

Since the former president died of Alzheimer’s disease in 2004, Ron Reagan and his mother, Nancy, have spoken with one voice about federal funding for embryonic stem-cell research. They see the possibility of an Alzheimer’s cure in research opposed by President Bush.

“This is the first time my mother and I have been allied on a particular issue and made a point of that,” he said.

While his father was solidly conservative, Ron Reagan remembers the 1980s as a time of greater civility than today.

“My father didn’t take political disagreements personally, and he didn’t question people’s patriotism,” he said. “In the intervening years, we have seen an erosion of that sensibility.”

He attributes the change to extremes of the Christian right. “If you assume God is on your side, people opposed to you will be on Satan’s side, working for Beelzebub. It’s demonizing people and attacking people,” Reagan said.

Looking toward 2008, he sees exciting races but also candidates who have Achilles’ heels. “In a nutshell, the leading contenders on both sides have somewhat similar problems,” he said.

Republican John McCain will have a tough time “getting out of the primaries,” Reagan predicts. “Conservatives don’t like him.” And while Hillary Clinton “is favored still in the primaries. The question for her, once she’s out of the primaries, is could she possibly win?”

He’d like to see presidential races shortened, vigorous debates and campaign finance reform to “level the playing field.”

Reagan offered tips if you’re ever invited to the White House. “It’s a public building,” he said. “You look out the window and notice people lined up against the fence with telephoto lenses. They probably have photos of you, with a towel wrapped around you. It’s not a comfortable place.”

Speaking of comfort, he suggested choosing the Queen’s Bedroom over the Lincoln Bedroom. The mattress is better.

Was it hard not having what most kids consider a normal life?

“That was just the way I grew up,” Reagan said. “It might have been different had he been less famous and was suddenly running for president.

“He was a movie star before he was governor. He was always famous, my entire life.”

Columnist Julie Muhlstein: 425-339-3460 or muhlsteinjulie@heraldnet.com.

Talk to us

> Give us your news tips.

> Send us a letter to the editor.

> More Herald contact information.

More in Local News

City of Everett Engineer Tom Hood, left, and City of Everett Engineer and Project Manager Dan Enrico, right, talks about the current Edgewater Bridge demolition on Friday, May 9, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
How do you get rid of a bridge? Everett engineers can explain.

Workers began dismantling the old Edgewater Bridge on May 2. The process could take one to two months, city engineers said.

Smoke from the Bolt Creek fire silhouettes a mountain ridge and trees just outside of Index on Sept. 12, 2022. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
County will host two wildfire-preparedness meetings in May

Meetings will allow community members to learn wildfire mitigation strategies and connect with a variety of local and state agencies.

Helion's 6th fusion prototype, Trenta, on display on Tuesday, July 9, 2024 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Helion celebrates smoother path to fusion energy site approval

Helion CEO applauds legislation signed by Gov. Bob Ferguson expected to streamline site selection process.

Vehicles travel along Mukilteo Speedway on Sunday, April 21, 2024, in Mukilteo, Washington. (Ryan Berry / The Herald)
Mukilteo cameras go live to curb speeding on Speedway

Starting Friday, an automated traffic camera system will cover four blocks of Mukilteo Speedway. A 30-day warning period is in place.

Carli Brockman lets her daughter Carli, 2, help push her ballot into the ballot drop box on the Snohomish County Campus on Tuesday, Nov. 5, 2024 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Here’s who filed for the primary election in Snohomish County

Positions with three or more candidates will go to voters Aug. 5 to determine final contenders for the Nov. 4 general election.

Students from Explorer Middle School gather Wednesday around a makeshift memorial for Emiliano “Emi” Munoz, who died Monday, May 5, after an electric bicycle accident in south Everett. (Aspen Anderson / The Herald)
Community and classmates mourn death of 13-year-old in bicycle accident

Emiliano “Emi” Munoz died from his injuries three days after colliding with a braided cable.

Danny Burgess, left, and Sandy Weakland, right, carefully pull out benthic organisms from sediment samples on Thursday, May 1, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
‘Got Mud?’ Researchers monitor the health of the Puget Sound

For the next few weeks, the state’s marine monitoring team will collect sediment and organism samples across Puget Sound

Cal Brennan, 1, sits inside of a helicopter during the Paine Field Community Day on Saturday, May 17, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Will Geschke / The Herald)
Children explore world of aviation at Everett airport

The second annual Paine Field Community Day gave children the chance to see helicopters, airplanes and fire engines up close.

A person walks past Laura Haddad’s “Cloud” sculpture before boarding a Link car on Monday, Oct. 14, 2024 in SeaTac, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Sound Transit seeks input on Everett bike, pedestrian improvements

The transit agency is looking for feedback about infrastructure improvements around new light rail stations.

A standard jet fuel, left, burns with extensive smoke output while a 50 percent SAF drop-in jet fuel, right, puts off less smoke during a demonstration of the difference in fuel emissions on Tuesday, March 28, 2023 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Sustainable aviation fuel center gets funding boost

A planned research and development center focused on sustainable aviation… Continue reading

Dani Mundell, the athletic director at Everett Public Schools, at Everett Memorial Stadium on Wednesday, May 14, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Will Geschke / The Herald)
Everett Public Schools to launch girls flag football as varsity sport

The first season will take place in the 2025-26 school year during the winter.

A “SAVE WETLANDS” poster is visible under an seat during a public hearing about Critical Area Regulations Update on ordinance 24-097 on Wednesday, May 14, 2025 in Everett, Washington. (Olivia Vanni / The Herald)
Snohomish County Council passes controversial critical habitat ordinance

People testified for nearly two hours, with most speaking in opposition to the new Critical Areas Regulation.

Support local journalism

If you value local news, make a gift now to support the trusted journalism you get in The Daily Herald. Donations processed in this system are not tax deductible.