How to decorate room for siblings to share

  • By Terri Sapienza The Washington Post
  • Wednesday, September 30, 2009 1:53pm
  • Life

Decorating a child’s bedroom should be fun, but decorating a bedroom that siblings share can be a challenge.

“When kids share a room, the more personal space each child has, the better,” Washington designer Annie Elliott advises. Elliott has firsthand experience: Her 5-year-old twin girls, Ruthie and Georgie, share a bedroom.

Recently, she helped client Jennifer Fiore set up a room for daughter Brooke, 5, and son Jack, 3, as the family made way for a newborn.

To delineate space for each child, they painted one wall lavender for Brooke, the opposite wall green for Jack and the other two walls yellow. “They chose their favorite colors, and Annie helped pick out shades of those colors,” Fiore said.

Each child has a bookshelf, bed and closet. “They really love it,” Fiore said. “They play in there now more than they do in their playroom.”

Here are more design ideas from Elliott to help preserve a child’s autonomy — and a parent’s sanity — when siblings share:

If you allow each child to choose a color for one wall, limit their choices to ensure the colors look good together.

Allow each child a shelf that’s completely theirs to display collections. (This is also a good way to control clutter.)

Let each child choose their bedding.

Divide the closet so each child has a side. If the closet is small, hang two rods and have a step stool handy.

If there isn’t enough space for separate dressers, give them separate drawers.

Hang a canopy over each bed to create a private space.

Consider a loft bed for an older child; it creates a room within a room below the mattress. And what child doesn’t like a secret place all their own to read, play quietly or color.

Siblings usually share CDs or books or DVDs, but don’t expect the children to share everything. Their bedroom should be a place where they can have some things that are all their own.

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